Jackie Reinking New York Wedding Officiant

New York Online Wedding | A Guide to Video Ceremonies

The New York online wedding has made its big debut!

I’m a big fan!!

I had the privilege to officiate the New York online wedding of Martha and Luke on May 20, 2020. There are some truly magical things to be said about it this New York online wedding process.

Martha and Luke didn’t want to wait for new guidelines to be released on what the new ‘normal’ was going to be for a wedding. When Governor Cuomo signed the executive order giving couples the ability to get married virtually, they were happy to be one of the first in line.

Since ‘Project Cupid’ is such a new process, Martha & Luke, their witness Xiaoxi  as well as myself practiced the process of screen sharing for official signatures. Martha and Luke had invited immediate family members and some friends to join them for their New York online wedding ceremony. A little practice, or ‘wedding rehearsal’, seemed necessary for the 20 guests so that there weren’t going to be any hiccups during the Zoom wedding session.

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NY Online Wedding Day for Martha & Luke:

I opened up the Zoom wedding ceremony session up 15 minutes early but muted my sound and video until our couple appeared. I wanted to give everyone plenty of time to ‘arrive’ and get settled. One by one their 20 families & friends joined and chatted amongst themselves. Just as guests would if they were in person. Martha’s mom took great pride in introducing family and friends as they signed on so that everyone felt welcome. Martha & Luke arrived and everyone cheered. All were just so happy and grateful to be part of this special moment. Just as if we were all standing in the same room.

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The Wedding Ceremony:

I always take such pride in doing any ceremony but this one was different. It was special because of it being my first New York online wedding. While we weren’t standing in the same space together, we were standing together and connected through the mission of love. The ceremony, like most ceremonies, had laughter and tears. We had a cat ring bearer. Martha selected and recited a reading for Luke. The couple shared their ‘I Dos’ and exchanged rings. By all counts this was a ceremony like all others that just happen to take place online. It was perfect!! Afterwards we shared screens and officially signed the marriage license. Martha and Luke were officially married. They were husband and wife. They were happy. That is all that mattered at that moment.

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However, that’s not where the magic ends…

After the ceremony I told them I would leave the Zoom call open for as long as they would like to stay on the call. I muted my audio and video but while I wasn’t ‘on’ the call, I still was able to hear what was being said.

There are no words to convey how beautiful it is to sit and listen.  One by one each wedding guest congratulated and wished them well. In this moment, I realized how perfect a New York online wedding ceremony can be for couples. Each person had their own personal connection to the couple that day.

In addition, how often do you get a front row seat hearing every word shared in a ceremony from the officiant and the couple?

I walked away from this first ceremony on cloud nine. I couldn’t be happier with how this whole online ceremony turned out for Martha and Luke.

In these trying times, I’m just really grateful to Mayor de Blasio for the NY online wedding option for couples ready to get married. I’m a big believer in getting you married in whatever way feels right to you!!

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If you need additional advice on whether a New York online wedding is right for you or have questions about getting married during a video ceremony, get in touch HERE. I can also be reached by phone or text at (646) 456-4555 or shoot me an email at JJReinking@gmail.com

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💥 Week 5: Elopements Are Just Budget Options
MYTH: Elopements are just the “cheap” wedding option.

Yes, eloping can be budget-friendly if you want it to be. But we’ve also seen elopements with designer gowns, luxe florals, a vintage car, and a stay at The Beekman Hotel.

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Being a part of their wedding in a space that celebrates love in all its forms — was truly unforgettable. Thank you, Aleixa & Molly, for letting me stand beside you on this incredible day.

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MYTH: You’ll miss out on the fun if you elope.

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🥂 Elopements are fun because they’re made for you.
You get to create a celebration that feels free, joyful, and unforgettable.
Wear the dress. Toss the bouquet. Ride the subway. Book the fancy dinner. Or do none of that — and just run wild with your love.

📖 Busting all 5 myths on the blog:
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Krista & Michael’s love story came to life in one of Brooklyn’s coolest spots — The Box House Hotel 💫

From their emotional vows to the rooftop celebration, this day was bursting with love, laughter, and NYC charm. Every detail reflected them — modern, meaningful, and full of heart. 💍❤️

✨Thinking about getting married in NYC and want the planning to feel easy and intentional? Reach out. We’re here to make your day unforgettable.

📍The Box House Hotel, Brooklyn
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Bri & Andrew’s ceremony was everything! It was full of heartfelt tears and belly laughs 💛💍

It was one of those days where emotion flowed freely, and joy filled every second. I was so excited when Bri shared this moment captured, just one of many during their unforgettable “I do.”

These are the moments that remind me why I do what I do. The laughter, the connection, the realness. This is love.

✨Thinking about your own NYC ceremony filled with real, raw, beautiful emotion? Reach out. We’d love to help you create a day that feels just like you.

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✨If an intimate Central Park moment sounds like your perfect wedding day then reach out. We’d love to help you make it happen.

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💥 Week 3: Elopements Aren’t “Real” Weddings

MYTH: Eloping isn’t a “real” wedding.

There’s no rule that says you need a ballroom to get married. Your vows are real. Your love is real. Your ceremony is real — whether it’s under the Ladies Pavilion or on the steps of the NYPL.

💫 Eloping isn’t “less than.” It’s just different — and often more aligned with your actual values. You don’t need 200 guests to make it count. You just need each other.

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jackie@jackiereinking.com
New York City Wedding Officiant & Elopement Celebrant

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